September 2nd, 2010 
Megan There is a side of me that you all do not often see — my crochet side. I love to crochet. So much, in fact, that I started a blog about it. Today I’m sharing my latest crochet projects that tie into being a NewlyWife.
My newest kitchen scrubby
First up is a kitchen scrubby, which I made with a pattern that my friend sent me. And this is where we get into our intense NW discussion: Do you use reusable dishrags? I have friends who use crocheted cotton dishcloths (like my crocheted cotton scrubby) to clean dishes and counters, and others who swear it is a breeding ground for all sorts of bacteria. It seems like some will use reusable rags (like a cut up T-shirt), but never a crocheted dishcloth or scrubby.
Look at those cute little hearts, perfect for a baby girl!
I also made a blanket for our good friend’s second baby. She did not have a shower or anything, but I brought the blanket to the hospital. Which brings me to my second question. How often should you visit a friend and their new baby in the hospital? This couple had a C-Section, so she was in for 3 or 4 days. I was able to visit twice. I felt very privileged to spend that time with them and their new one. I was also happy to hold the baby for awhile so that they could get some rest. If this couple was just an acquaintance, I probably would not have gone twice, in fact I may have waited until they got home to stop by. However, because we are so close to them, I was comfortable going twice.
See how big this blanket is? It gives the baby room to grow onto it 
What do you think? Do you use crocheted kitchen clothes? And how often do you visit a new mom at the hospital? How the two are related, I’m not sure. But go ahead and answer whichever question you want in the comments.
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Megan I just love the baby blanket. It’s adorable! It inspires me to make one for my friend who is due in a month.
Megan – The blanket is beautiful and I am sure that your friend appreciated receiving something new for the second baby. In response to you question about visiting in the hospital, there are many variables. If the person has a significant number of family close by and they are all visiting, you might not visit as often. If it is a first baby and they need time to bond with the baby, you might wait until they get home. It will always depend on the person. I do recommend making a casserole and taking it to the new mother when she gets home to help in the first few days of being home and everyone is getting adjusted. Also put the casserole in a disposable dish so the new mother does not have to worry about washing the dish to return to you.
I love the idea of a crocheted kitchen cloth since I’ve never heard of one. But how do you get the cheese off once it’s melted onto it from the hot water?
Also, I’ve had two babies and loved the visitors when we had them. I think it really depends on your relationship with the new mom and dad. I usually stay away and await the invitation for visitors whether they are still in the hospital or at home.
But once you’ve had a baby (either naturally or via c-section (both of mine were c-section) you are SOOOOOO tired. And you feel like you have to entertain your visitors when they come to visit which makes you more tired. I would honestly wait for the silent clues on when to visit.
Beth’s suggestion of the meal is a great one and a perfect excuse to go and see the new baby more!
I’m not sure that a scrubby would be as good with the baked on stuff unless you soak it. But about the bacteria, sponges are hot beds for bacteria. So either way you want to disinfect it. Zap a wet sponge/scrubby in the microwave for about two minutes. Maybe bleach would help too?
Beth – the disposable tray is a wonderful suggestion! Thanks so much!
Amory – great idea to look for silent clues. and yes, I love bringing the meals by later an getting extra time with the new one!
Emily – I had heard about the microwave but never had a time, I will definitely try that! If you bleach it, you loose the cute colors! haha just kiddin!